What To Do When People Can’t Get Along

God is Hope

Romans 15:4–13 — Paul’s Movement of Thought

Paul’s argument, God is the God of Hope, unfolds in a perfectly shaped arc:

  1. Scripture was given to produce hope.
  2. This hope works itself out in steadfastness and encouragement.
  3. This produces harmony and unity in the church.
  4. This unity mirrors the pattern of Christ’s own ministry.
  5. Christ’s ministry fulfills God’s promises to Israel.
  6. That fulfillment opens the door for Gentiles to glorify God.
  7. Therefore both Jews and Gentiles together become one choir of praise.
  8. And Paul closes with a prayer that hope will overflow by the Spirit.

You can almost see Paul thinking pastorally:

“Scripture → steadfastness → encouragement → hope → harmony → unity → shared praise → overflowing hope.”

Now let’s connect each piece to the passage.


“Whatever was written in former days…” (v. 4)

Yes Paul means the Old Testament. That’s the only Scripture the early church had.

But Paul’s emphasis isn’t that Scripture is a rulebook. Instead, he highlights its encouraging and hope-generating nature.

A Mindset Shift:

We often imagine the God of the OT as harsh, impatient, ready to punish—but Jesus is the full revelation of God.

If Jesus is “the exact representation of God’s being” (Heb. 1:3), then the OT must point toward the same God of mercy, patience, steadfast love, and faithfulness.

So when Paul says Scripture encourages us, he means:

  • the story shows God’s unwavering faithfulness
  • the story shows God repeatedly rescuing
  • the story shows God keeping His promises despite human failure
  • the story shows that God’s purposes move forward even when we resist

Scripture encourages us because God in Scripture is relentlessly committed to His people.

God is hope

If our picture of God doesn’t look like Jesus, we have the wrong picture.

And Paul knows the Roman church needs a right picture of God so they can live in unity.


“…by steadfastness…we might have hope.”

What is Paul’s sense of “steadfastness”:

  • slow and steady
  • faithful
  • consistent over the long haul
  • doing the right things until they become part of your nature

This is the spiritual maturity Paul wants for the Roman church.
Not religious hype.
Not emotional highs.
But steady faithfulness shaped by Scripture.

This is the soil in which hope grows.

And notice what Paul is saying:

Hope is not something you feel.
Hope is something you grow into through steadfastness.

This is why unity is possible, because mature people rooted in Scripture and hope don’t splinter over small things.


“May the God of steadfastness and encouragement…” (v. 5)

It is easy to read this and keep going. But here Paul says something that I think is stunning!

Paul says:

God is the God of steadfastness and encouragement.

He’s not asking God to give qualities He does not possess.
He’s asking the community to be shaped by God’s very character.

When we get that and live that out, we live in harmony with anyone else who gets that and lives it out.

Paul’s logic:

  1. Scripture reveals God’s steadfast and encouraging nature.
  2. When you encounter this God, you become steadfast and encouraging.
  3. When a community is shaped by God’s nature, they naturally become united.
  4. And that unity glorifies God.

Paul isn’t calling them to “try harder.”
He’s calling them to reflect the God who formed them.


“Welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you…” (v. 7)

This is the hinge of the whole passage.

In the Roman church, Jewish Christians and Gentile Christians were suspicious of each other.
Different customs and different histories.
Which of course means different expectations.

Paul says:

Look at how Christ welcomed you.
That’s your model.

Jesus didn’t welcome people once they conformed.
He welcomed them into transformation.
Before they ever agreed with Him, believed in Him or followed Him.

Sometimes we give a lot of attention to people who we say are “on fire” for God. They appear to be full of energy and laser focused on boldly living out their faith. And we hold that up as the ultimate example of a christian.

God is glorified not only by people who are “on fire,” but by those who are persistently consistent in faithfulness.

But what about those who welcome others with steady, Christlike grace? I have wondered if that demeanor glorifies God more than passionate-but-divisive religious fervor.


“Christ became a servant to the circumcised…” (v. 8–9)

God is hope

Paul now grounds the command to welcome in the story of Jesus Himself.

Why should Jews welcome Gentiles?
Because Christ fulfilled the promises to Israel.

Why should Gentiles welcome Jews?
Because those promises were the pathway to their salvation.

Here’e Paul’s point:

  • Jesus didn’t skip Israel.
  • Jesus entered Israel’s story as a servant.
  • This proved God keeps His promises.
  • And because of that, the Gentiles receive mercy.

So unity isn’t optional—it’s the whole point of God’s plan.


Paul piles up Scripture (vv. 9–12)

He quotes:

  • Psalm 18:49
  • Deuteronomy 32:43
  • Psalm 117:1
  • Isaiah 11:10

Why?

To show that the OT always envisioned Jew and Gentile praising God together.

In other words, the Old Testament was never just for Israel.
It was a preview of global reconciliation and worship.

Paul is saying:

The church in Rome is the firstfruits of Isaiah’s prophecy.
Don’t break apart what God spent centuries bringing together.


“May the God of hope fill you…” (v. 13)

The final blessing wraps the whole passage together.

If God is the God of steadfastness and encouragement (v. 5),
and God is the God who keeps His promises (v. 8),
and God is the God who brings Jew and Gentile together (vv. 9–12),
then…

He is also the God of hope.

And this hope isn’t merely quiet optimism. It is abounding hope, overflowing into life, unity, joy, peace, by the power of the Holy Spirit.

This is important:
Hope is not produced by changing circumstances. It is produced by a deeper revelation of who God is.

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What To Do When People Can't Get Along
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What To Do When People Can't Get Along
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Explore Romans 15:4–13 as a revelation of God’s steadfast, encouraging, hope-giving character. This reflection unpacks how Scripture forms us, how Christ fulfills God’s promises to Israel, and how Jew and Gentile together become one unified voice of praise, leading us into a life shaped by hope, harmony, and faithful welcome.
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